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Why fake deadlines are (almost) as good as real ones.

August 1, 2013 By Sue

Last week I wrote about deadlines, and why I think you should love them. No, luuuurve them. Really, you should.
But what happens when you are self employed? Or starting a business?  Or trying something new?  The deadlines tend to be self imposed. Oh oh. Harder. Much harder.

It’s simple. If there are no deadlines out there. You need to make some up.  Yes. Make. Some. Up.

Here’s how I think about it.

Deadlines are promises.
Really, a deadline is just a promise made between two parties. And let’s face it: a promise is a promise, even if it is a promise to yourself.

Every week, I make myself a bunch of promises to ensure I have some deadlines in place beyond what others set for me. (If you are wondering why I love deadlines so much, read this.) Some of those promises are to me. Some are to others. Here are a couple of regulars:

  1. I promise I will start all my weekly columns the week before they are due. Yes, the week before, so on the odd occasion life gets in the way, the balls don’t drop.  (Never failed on this one yet.)
  2. I promise myself (and you!) I will blog twice a week. (Mostly, this works. There was a small slip up two weeks ago, but don’t worry, back on the horse again. Have to say, the comments, emails, suggestions about how the blog posts are helping you, or could help you, are great at helping me meet this deadline. So thank YOU for helping me with this self-imposed promise!)

These two are a good representation of a cold hard reality. Despite my best intentions, the deadlines I set for myself (#2) don’t get treated with the same seriousness as deadlines set by editors, bosses or clients (#1).

To get around this, one of the tricks I’ve learned over years being self employed is to promise stuff to other people on a deadline. Try it.  Promise a few important people in your career – bosses, editors, clients – you’ll have something done by a certain date. Promise them, and you probably will do it. (Well I suggest you should, if you want to look professional.)

Promise yourself you’ll have something done, and the result doesn’t always look the same. That’s a good one to work on. I know I am. Now, when I don’t post I think: “Hmm, but remember how all those people told you they really look forward to your posts?” It helps me get motivated.  It helps me post to a deadline.  If I had no-one out there asking me if I’d posted, perhaps I’d buddy up with someone and promise that person I’d do it.

The key with deadlines is to make yourself accountable, to someone, somewhere. It really helps those promises get met.

Personal promises
No-one sets out to break a promise to themselves, however, in reality, I’ve  found my work-related promises are far easier to meet than my ‘personal’ promises.

In fact – deadlines tend to get prioritised like this:

  1. Work-related deadlines impacting other people get first priority.
  2. Work-related deadlines impacting me (ie: all the ‘nice to haves’) come second.
  3. Personal promises – deadlines – that would keep me healthy, fit, happy, stumble along in third place.

I know life is in balance when the three priorities healthily compete. When the hierarchy is as obvious as I’ve outlined above, things need some work.

At the moment, I’m working on bumping number three – those personal promises – up the list a little.  Here are some recent examples I’m testing, so that I treat promises I make to myself with the same reverence I treat those I make to others.

  • I promise myself to exercise in some shape or form, most days.  (Typing does not count as exercise.  All four limbs must be moving. Typing while tapping my feet does not count.)
  • I promise not to order chicken satay sticks from the local Thai restaurant so often that the waitress knows my order before I open my mouth. (This is proving difficult: it’s because home made peanut sauce is soooo good.)
  • I promise not to work on weekends unless there’s an event scheduled or I’m travelling, when schedules are topsy turvy. (This one’s surprisingly easy. It just takes reminding other people.)

For the comments section, how about you? Which deadlines are easiest to meet? Which promises are hardest to keep?

 

 

 

 

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Comments

  1. Lindy says

    August 2, 2013 at 12:55 pm

    I find that short deadlines (self imposed or otherwise) are best for me, and I’m much more likely to stick to them if I know someone else is waiting for my work.
    I’m at the tail end of a PhD and the lack of a deadline has been really difficult for me – I’ve had to ask my supervisor to set mini-deadlines so that I don’t leave 3 years of work to the night before it’s due 🙂

    • Sue says

      August 2, 2013 at 2:11 pm

      I like short/tight deadlines too Lindy. Phd sounds the ultimate loooong deadline!

  2. Noelene Proud says

    August 2, 2013 at 1:08 pm

    Hi Sue

    When I make a promise to myself, I also tell someone else (usually my nearest and dearest) what I plan to do, almost like I don’t quite trust myself to keep my promise!

    I find personal promises on exercise easy to keep because exercising is my number one justification for putting off writing. At my current rate of procrastination, look for me at the next Olympics

    Noelene

    • Sue says

      August 2, 2013 at 2:21 pm

      Love it. That’s why I’ve announced on twitter I’m trying to walk 10,000 steps a day (failing, but only day one) or say very publicly that I blog twice a week (mostly succeeding). Shame myself into things that are good for me!

  3. Michaela Fox says

    August 2, 2013 at 3:51 pm

    I create short but realistic deadlines. I find my interest wavers if I sit on something for too long so when the inspiration strikes I try to get the bulk of the work done immediately, and then I always have some breathing space for life inevitably getting in the way. I’ve never missed a deadline for an editor (in my short 6 month career)!

    • Sue says

      August 5, 2013 at 12:20 pm

      That’s right Micheala – life DOES get in the way. It took me years to realise that and most times I’m overloaded I realise it’s because I “forgot* that small reality check. Thanks for the comment, I like your approach.

  4. Kym Campradt says

    August 9, 2013 at 10:25 pm

    Hi Sue

    Thanks for a great blog post. I really enjoyed the Magazine Writing course I recently did with AWC (and you). I found the weekly deadlines really helped to keep me writing. Now it’s over, I’ve set myself a weekly pitch deadline so I keep onto it! I’m a list person so if it’s on the list it has to get done (I’ve learnt to put just one or two really important things so I don’t get overwhelmed!)
    Smaller tasks more often are easier to keep track of!

    • Sue says

      August 12, 2013 at 9:55 am

      Hi Kym, delighted to hear that on all counts. Glad you enjoyed the course and delighted you’re onto pitching AND self imposed deadlines. Thanks for dropping by.

  5. Leona says

    September 26, 2013 at 1:21 pm

    I love the promises to yourself. Especially the chicken satay.
    Great concept of deadlines as promises – definitely makes you think differently.

  6. Rinelle Grey says

    October 8, 2013 at 8:19 pm

    Deadlines are SO handy. I like to post them on my blog, make them a bit public, then I tend to take them more seriously than if I just say them to myself. It’s even more inspiring now I’m starting to get a few readers for my books, who are waiting for the next one. I wouldn’t want to disappoint them.

    • Sue says

      October 9, 2013 at 7:44 am

      Absolutely – nothing like readers-in-waiting to focus you. Thanks for checking in Rinelle.

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